Wednesday, October 26, 2011

My life as a mom...

There is nothing as wonderful as being a mommy. In my opinion. I always dreamed of being one, and I have to say, so far, it is everything I dreamed of and more.

I couldn't ask for more beautiful, happy, good babies. I feel so incredibly blessed to have been given such amazing gifts. Both Abbey & Dylan amaze me every day with everything they are learning and the little people they are turning into.I love seeing their distinct personalities coming out.

Abbey is definitely becoming her own little person. She is getting to the age (5 months) when her personality is really starting to come out and she is much more involved/active. The way she "talks," observes, and interacts with things/people are all showing us little tid bits into the person she will become. It is so fascinating to watch.

So here is my opinion, two little ones this close in age is A LOT of work. It's hard to get a break, you are constantly meeting their needs all day long that you barely get to meet one of your own. However, it is worth every unbrushed piece hair, dirty spit up shirt, tired eyes, and aching back! I know this is such a short time period in our lives and I am soaking up every chaotic and beautiful moment we have. It is such a special time in our lives.

I've found the hardest times to be "feeding" times. When both kids are hungry. I have to say, one thing about your kids being close in age is that they really must learn patience. One usually always has to wait for the other to be taken care of. Also entertaining themselves. I was so worried when Abbey was born that we would "break" Dylan, that he would be mad, feel forgotten, you know. But I have to say, it has been the greatest thing for him. I know it will only get better once Abbey can actually "play" with him. He just loves having her around. And I love that they will always have each other.

So a lot of people think it's crazy to have two so close in age, but personally, I think, it's great. You get the best of both worlds, sweet cuddly baby, and active entertaining toddler. Plus the sleep deprivation, changing diapers, etc. isn't so shocking since your already used to it.

Family is so important to me, and taking care of these two kids is one of the best jobs I could ever have. I love showering them with love and watching Luke do the same, I love seeing us all grow together as our own little family.

Eating Rice Cereal for the first time!

We waited a tiny bit longer to give Abbey solids than we did with Dylan but I definitely think she was/is ready. This girl loves watching us eat, imitating and trying to grab for our plates. She did great. Loved it, kept trying to grab the spoon and put it to her mouth. Can't wait to watch her experience the array of purees soon, sweet potatoes, green peas, etc.



Happy 5 Month Birthday!

Sweet baby girl is 5 months! How is this possible? The baby phase seriously goes by way too quickly. She is getting to be so fun these days! Giggling and smiling all the time. Her stranger anxiety is finally tapering off I think. The fact that she takes 1-2 bottles a day helps I think. She is very comfortable with her daddy now (no more panic/screaming attack if her mommy isn't holding her). And LOVES her brother. Her eyes just light up at him. She is sleeping very well (goes to bed around 8:00, wakes at 7:30, and nurses maybe once in the middle of the night). She loves her paci to sleep, and also enjoys sleeping on her side. If she rolls onto her belly she gets stuck and mad. I'm eager for her to just sleep on her stomach. But I guess she has to get better at rolling back onto her back first. She is starting to sit unassisted pretty well. She is a HUGE talker and squealer. It's going to be fun time when she's a toddler. Her and Dylan will probably be talking over each other. Anyways, her are some pics! And to compare to Dylan, check out his blog:
http://babydylanhalliday.blogspot.com/2010/02/happy-5-month-birthday-dylan.html